What's Going On Here?

Accept the first guy who offers you acceptance in his life.

YES! You go for it! He's hot, he has a nice car and he's so much fun!

Listen to his stories? He's daring and exciting. What's not to like?

Well... he treats you like you're a trash can. Useful when you want something, but otherwise just something to avoid. Cos it smells bad. And let's be honest, you'd look a little wierd hanging out at a dump right?

To quote a friend of mine, "If you loved yourself, why would you put yourself through that?"

She couldn't be more right.

If you really loved yourself, why would you accept that?

I really can NOT believe what I've been hearing. The way girls are being treated. And they're ACCEPTING it!!!

I understand it's 'cool' to have a boyfriend, especially in teens, and that we seem to live in a time where low self esteem is rife, and depression is claimed in attempts to avoid responsibility of actual emotions. [Please don't get me wrong, I fully support psychology and understand that depression is a real problem, but get help, and if your treatment isn't working, try something else!!!!]

I'm not bragging that I'm happy. That took me a long time too. I just want to reitterate that, at the risk of sounding cliche'd, a lot like charity, love starts at home too.

Take a little time out from the boyzzzz and learn to love yourself first.

You can't expect someone else to love you [like you should be loved] if you don't love, let alone respect yourself.

You're worth more than you think!

And he should feel LUCKY to have any of your attention, let alone all of your time.

He should be so lucky...

Wishing you luck,

Dreaming Of Daisy Fields...

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